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Calm The Chaos

A Fail-proof Road Map for Parenting Even the Most Challenging Kids

A simple, fail-proof roadmap for parents raising even the most challenging children from the founder of the life-changing Calm the Chaos methodology and the Lemon Lime Adventures blog.

We believe that behind every struggle is a hidden superpower waiting to be unlocked.

You are Not A Failure

Your kid isn't broken.

You are Not Alone

Join 10,000+ parents for this Masterclass: 5 Little-Known Mistakes Parents Make When Handling Meltdowns (and what to do instead)

Here’s what you’ll discover:
➡️  5 Myths for handling meltdowns -- See why common advice like “be consistent,” “set firm boundaries,” “use consequences,” and “connect more” can make the meltdowns worse -- and what to do instead
➡️  How to eliminate meltdowns, tantrums, and outbursts using the YOU-CUE (you’ll raise a happy, confident child with the skills to self-regulate and solve problems)
➡️  How to create a calm, peaceful home where everyone enjoys being together using the Magic Reset Button (if you’ve tried “connecting more” yet your family still can’t stand being around each other, you’ll love this)

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What you learn is proven over 8 years with 3,000+ parents -- including those whose kids have ADHD, ASD, ODD, SPD, and every other label under the sun.

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Discover Your Child's Behavior Type

Did you know there are 5 Unique Behavior Types, and knowing this for your child can provide incredible clarity and confidence in connecting with, understanding and empowering your child. 

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Simplify Parenting with a Plan that WORKS

Discover how to turn around meltdowns, not listening, arguments, and other frustrating behavior, and create a family that is calm, happy, and thriving!

The family you always wanted REALLY is possible.
Forget about getting it perfect.
Simply take the first step.

Take it from me...

Hi, I’m Dayna Abraham, author of the bestselling books Superkids Activity Guide and Sensory Processing 101. I’m also the founder of the parenting blog Lemon Lime Adventures, which gets over 3 million visitors a year.

I spent over 13 years as a teacher. And for the past 5 years, I’ve helped over 200,000+ parents, teachers, therapists, and pediatricians get control of their child’s most difficult behaviors using the Calm the Chaos framework.

I didn't magically get here by chance. I spent the first 7 years of parenting feeling like an absolute failure despite my background in education. I read every book I could find, spent thousands on therapists and advocates and tried every calm-down tool on the planet. 

Nothing worked at first. And then I tried a radically "out of the box" approach and things started to change. 

What others are saying

Rachel Waugh

A Fabulous Solution for Calming Yourself, Your Child and Your Family

"Dayna is so enthusiastic and dedicated to assisting others with the very struggles we all encounter with our children. I'm UK based and using her calm the chaos workshop just now which is epic! Amazing advice and oodles of understanding and support. She is so spot on. Connect. Understand. Empower. If you are looking for help, here is a fabulous solution for calming yourself, your child and your family. Thank you Dayna x" -- Rachel Waugh

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A Safe Space to Get Help…

"Dayna is wonderful and so supportive, all while giving her workshop for FREE! I have read countless books and tried hundreds of ideas...the difference is Dayna actually gives you the tools to use! She is also very protective of her group and it's members, she ensures that it is a safe space to get help, doesn't allow negativity or bullying, and if problems are raised that her framework doesn't address she is honest and suggests other resources. I am so lucky to have found this program!!" -- Katie Krol-Buch Carlina

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The Perfect Blend of Encouragement, Support and Expertise...

"Dayna is the most amazing and real human being that I have ever had help me with my superkid! 🤗The practical program and her personal involvement in answering my questions, giving encouragement and support is a perfect blend with her expertise and and i just wouldn't be making it through the day without it. This group, website and the Calm the Chaos Program is a gem to be treasured! 😍 You rock!!" -- Melissa Fleischmann-MacDonald

It's Less About ONE MAGIC TRICK
and More About Following a Roadmap

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Discover Your Child's Behavior Type

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